The Sub Scribe

One of the elements of my submissive nature I struggle to understand the most is my desire for my mistress to be flirting with, dancing with, making out with other men. This isn’t a threesome thing - I have no strong feelings one way or another about whether I need to be there or not. And I’m certainly not interested in any interaction with the other man involved.

Bizarrely, of all places, I found a powerful description of the basic impulse at work here in a vanilla blog; Susan Senator’s family blog. In a piece called Flirting with Disaster she describes how she finds herself flirting with another man at dinner, how she tells her husband about it and how she knows this will change their relationship from that point forwards.

This passage caught some of what this is all about:

Snuggling with him on the couch, I left nothing out, so that he would know he could always trust me, even if I flirted more (and I knew I would). This was no guilty confession, however; it was about connection and, ultimately, seduction. At one point, I saw something — anger, maybe, or jealousy — darken his expression, so I said quickly, “You have to understand: This is not about him. Let’s just use it, OK?” I smiled coquettishly. He got it.

This fantasy is about two things. Firstly, it’s about enjoying the female power of my mistress. It’s the joy of her experiencing her sexuality, her attraction to others, and the power she holds in their attraction to her. It’s affirming her as a sexual being outwith the confines of the relationship; someone worth desiring; someone worth serving.

But it’s also about our relationship. It’s about sharing something. It’s about the submission of granting her this right, outside the normal boundaries of a relationship, while asking nothing similar for myself. It’s about submission gifted and dominance joyfully received.

That’s what it’s about.

Picture by Paul Bence

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This is an unusually blunt post about the cuckolding fantasy:

There really are F/m couples that practice cuckolding successfully. They are rare. And both the man and the woman have considerable emotional maturity and trust. Many women come to despise the man that asks for this. Some wives leave their husband because knowing he wants this is intolerable. [From Your Husband Wants You to Cuckold Him]

Nice to hear it said.

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Mrs Kelly went out on the town. This is exactly the sort of thing I can see my mistress doing:

 Last night I went out with two girlfriends to Roppongi and we really got very, very wild and had a great time flirting and being generally naughty. Just before I left, scott was locked up in his Gerecke tube. The whole time I was dancing and flirting with other men, I had the key on a chain around my neck. One guy, Roger from Holland, even talked to scott on the phone. I was calling to tell scott I wouldn’t make the last train home and would stay with one of my girlfriends. I looked at Roger and said, “You wanna say hi to my husband?” I put the phone to his ear and he exchanged a few words with scott. After I hung up, Roger looked at me and said, “He likes that kind of thing, does he?” I think he knew exactly what our game was. I smiled and said, “Yes.”

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