The Sub Scribe

I’m at an interesting place in my life right now, one I hope to write about more soon. But, for various reasons, I can’t just yet. So I thought I’d try some writing inspiration from the search terms that bring people to this blog. And the first one I picked out is this:

do women despise cuckold

Now, I’m not a woman and I’m not a cuckold, so maybe people with a bit more experience than me can chime in to answer that. But here’s my thoughts on it:

This is the biggest danger of “how do I persuade my wife to cuckold me?”-type though processes. Because if your wife isn’t inherently turned on by the idea of cuckolding you, of getting a level of sexual freedom unavailable to most women, then pushing her into it – and some women will do it for the sake of the man that they love – runs the risk of creating exactly this situation.

My wife is turned on by this idea – but she’s hugely cautious about it for a number of reasons, not least the biochemical bonding that happens between a couple having sex, and the risk that puts on an established marriage. Pushing a woman who doesn’t like the idea into having sex with another runs the risk of her forming a stronger bond with anothe guy, of her despising you for not fighting for her, of her thinking your don’t love her enough to be possessive of her. I remember a situation at university where a friend asked her boyfriend if she could sleep with other men, and was devestated when he said “yes”. She’d wanted him to say no, and prove his intense desire for her.

So yes, a woman can despise a cuckold. Beware.