Do you ever…
June 5th, 2009
…wonder if being vanilla would be easier?
Silence of the sub scribe
January 12th, 2009
I’m sorry for the extended silence here, and the rather patchy posting before that. A family member was taken ill and sadly died not long after. I’ve been busy dealing with that and, as you guys can appreciate, wasn’t much in the mood for exploring this side of my life.
However, my mistress and I are in the process of taking some tentative steps back into a more “interesting” relationship, and I’ll do my best to share that here… 
Incidentally, this blog is in a brand new home, as I was approached by the Wordpress.com guys for http://subscribe.wordpress.com to use for their new comment subscribe functionality. I’d planned on moving to self-hosted Wordpress anyway, so welcome to the new digs. Do you like ‘em?
Muere por mi
July 31st, 2008
katerina
July 30th, 2008
Fun on FetLife
July 16th, 2008
The FetLife social network
While browsing my favourite blogs, I found a mention of FetLife, a new social network for, well, kinky folks.
Try thinking of Facebook or MySpace, except with more kink and chains. It looks promising. It’s easy to find people in your basic geographic area, which would be great for forming friendships or relationships, and the rapidly growing group areas look like they’re turning into mini-forums. Could be a lot of fun.
Anyway, feel free to check out my profile and add me as a friend.
The BBC’s Sudden S&M Interest
July 16th, 2008
BBC News covers Britain's S&M scene
Our little pastime has attracted sudden interest in the UK. All it takes is for one micro-celebrity to be caught in a little paid submission, and suddenly everyone’s interested in what we do.
The article’s enough to make one laugh out loud, though:
“Most clients I see are submissive – they want me to be in control,” she says. “When a client walks through the door I will have them strip and kneel on the floor in front of me – they will not even question that.”
What follows depends on what has been previously agreed, but Faith is adamant that she offers not just the indulgence of a fantasy, but therapy that helps those who are distressed by their fetish – or disappointed when the reality of their fantasy fails to live up to expectations.
Now, perhaps I’m biased, because I’m very much a relationship-based submissive, and the idea of going to see a pro-domme just does not appeal, but this seems a rather narrow view of a much more complicated subject…
To be fair, the article goes into more depth later on: Read more…
Zoë Hong’s Luxury Leather
July 15th, 2008
Zoë Hong: leather dress w/ silk charmeuse top and paniers
I can’t be the only one who finds some of the normal leather “mistress wear” a little, well, predictable, can I?
I do like looking for alternative suppliers to suggest to my mistress, and Zoë Hong’s new range, as shown on her website, are simply stunning: sophisticated, fashionable and sexy.
Blogroll Ponderings
June 13th, 2008
Just done a purge and update of my Blogroll.
Is it me, or do BDSM blogs have an even shorter shelf life than normal blogs?
Is this porn?
June 13th, 2008
Stupid, strange question that crosses my mind as I read my way around the blogs this evening: do they count as porn?
The majority of the blogs I read have little, if any, explicit material. They are more concerned with relationship than hot genital to genital action. Sure, they’re sexual by their very nature.
But are they porn?
Trying Something New
June 7th, 2008
I think I’m about to let down femdom bloggers everywhere. The post title makes this post sound like it’ll be about trying our some fun new kink.
Err, no.
I’m just struggling to keep up this blog due to family stresses right now, but I don’t want to let it die. But while I’m waiting for my writer’s block to pass, I thought I’d try something new:
It’s just a compilation of interesting stuff I find around the web that plays to my submissive side. Feel free to swing by, see what you think, and discuss what you see.
And hopefully I’ll be back here with original content of my own soon.
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